On Surgery
Surgery is mostly about what comes after. However, there are a few tips to share about preparing for surgery: 1) If the surgeon will
be taking lymph nodes, request a single incision for both breast surgery and accessing the lymph nodes; 2) request a nerve blocking procedure prior to surgery as it permits lower levels of anesthetic and lower dose pain (morphine) pills; 3) If you're not planning on reconstruction, direct your surgeon not to leave a flap of skin/tissue that is generally left for reconstruction purposes; 4) Obtain foam wedges for your bed. Having an elevated position will help you sleep better; and 5) Plan on not driving for a week or so after surgery.
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You may come home with a bandage covering your incision and at least one drain. The dressings need to be checked and changed every couple of days. Because I live in Quebec, this was done by the nurses at the closest CLSC (local community health centre). The hospital nurses will issue the requisition for this service for you. You need to call the CLSC Appointment Centre to set up your appointments. Get someone to drive you for the first week at least.
Massage the scar when it’s sealed. It’s important to break up any adhesions so you’ll have full range of pain-free motion. Using pure vitamin oil on your scar will lessen the visual appearance of the scar. Any drug store should have it. An alternative is aloe vera gel (from the plant).I also found Glaxol Base to be very effective (I applied it during radiation and noticed that it also helped with my scar).
Note: My Surgery
I chose to have a mastectomy rather than a lumpectomy. Both were offered. My tumour had responded to the chemotherapy and had shrunk by half. But, I felt that I was ‘done’ with that breast – even if not a medical fact. Given the biopsy-proven involvement of one lymph node and a suspicious second node on ultrasound, I was not offered a sentinel node biopsy. Instead my surgeon followed the current standard of care in my situation and proceeded with an axillary lymph node dissection (ALND). She took nine nodes.